40 Thoughts from Someone Turning 40!
With my 40th birthday looming on the horizon (March 11th), I thought I would share some thoughts I have collected over the years. I don't want to call it advice. These are more just realizations with which you might be able to identify.. So, if you have a moment, enjoy:
- Don’t worry about your age. You truly are only as old as you feel.
- Worry about yourself from time to time. It’s OK to put yourself first once in a while.
- Reward yourself. That new shirt or that ice cream; yeah, get it!
- Don’t take yourself too seriously. You want to strengthen yourself; laugh at it.
- Take care of your body. It’s the only one we get.
- Dream! Big or small, never be afraid to have dreams.
- Games are meant for the dining room table, not the dating scene.
- If someone asks, tell the truth. Lying doesn’t get either of you any further.
- You don’t know what you want to do with your life, it is OK. I don’t either.
- Have sex as much as you want! If you’re not married, wrap it up.
- Be nice, even if they aren’t. You don’t know what they’ve been through.
- Never pass up an opportunity to tell someone how you feel about them. You might not get that chance again.
- Give everyone a chance, and the ones that mean the most, give them two.
- Do you need that dollar? If not, give it to someone who does.
- Are your adult responsibilities done for the day? Then go ahead be a child; play!
- Love with your whole heart, don’t hinder your future because of past experiences.
- Love a lot of people. It is true the more the merrier.
- Drink more water, but don’t drown.
- There’s not really two Twix buildings.
- Give yourself a moment every day, a have yourself a no-commotion, nothing-going-on moment.
- Your fantasy women have dirty underwear too. You just don’t see them.
- You never want something as bad as the minute you give it up… Oh, Pepsi. . .
- Dating, they are not perfect, but are they perfect for you?
- It doesn’t get much better than homemade lasagna, or insert your favorite dish here, but really, lasagna!
- ACTIVITY, find some. It doesn’t have to be the gym; go for a walk or play with the kids.
- You can’t see a great movie too many times.
- If you learn from something bad, how bad was it, really, in hindsight?
- When you give a gift, make your goal to turn the recipient into a child. You won’t go wrong.
- Listening to the music of your past is just as good as going through old photos.
- Thank the people that help you, especially if they didn’t know they were doing it.
- Pro Wrestling is NOT fake. It is predetermined.
- Bugs Bunny is one funny dude.
- It’s not the size of the breast, it’s the placement of the nipple.
- That flaw you’re worried about may just be the quirk someone loves about you.
- If something makes you angry, learn about it. You may find it was just ignorance that created the hate.
- Don’t be afraid to feel the way you do. Be afraid that you won’t express it.
- Chores don’t have to be done right now, if you have a woman waiting on the couch, or a child waiting in their room.
- Dance! OMG it is fun!
- Live with the fact that women have cooler clothes to wear and more variety.
- Never stop learning and always be open to that something new.